The recent outbursts of my frens telling me that either their relationships or marriages are at stake really shocked me. I mean, they are good Christian couples and Pst just taught about the Love and relationship seminar. Shouldnt their marriages be stronger than before ?But yet, all I heard from them is communication problem.
If God has meant for a marriage to be forever, then why did my frens chose the way they did ? Albeit they are Godly pple, but probably like wat the bible says, the devil has come to steal and destroy. What surprised me as well was A actually was after M who is much older than him. A couldnt take the rejection and gave up totally in coming to cell group as well... I mean shouldnt men take all these r/s in stride. Where is persistance nowadays ? My ex bf was like dat... He just gave up on me at the first sign of quarrel. A, gave up on cg when he faced his first rejection in life.
My frens, facing troubles in marriages, have chosen another path to end it even though God forbids it. I know how much sufferings they have gone through. I know they are exasperated. I totally understand why they choose it and I will support them no matter what.. But isnt all these a reflection like wat i said earlier "there is no forever.." ? Perhaps my decision to stay single for the rest of my life is correct. No involvement, no pain.. Simple as dat...
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