In-laws becoming out-laws ?

Hmm... Been awhile since I blogged. Nothing much happening in my life. Cos always been living a dry and untasteful life. Anyway, met up with my 2 gal frens a few wks ago. Well, shocked is the word to describe the meet-up. My unusually "happening " gf just got ROM. She would have been the least of my frens dat i would have imagined would settle down so early.

We were rattling about her marriage life and talking about staying with in-laws. Hmm, similarly we 3 girls thought it will be good not to stay very near or even with the in-laws cos we might be anticipating world war 3 to happen if we do. Well, for me, if Im really going to get married in the future, I think I might still wanna be alone wif my husband. I dun tink im heartless in the sense im "throwing" away my parents but rather, as the bible states, its good for a man to leave their parents and be joined to his wife. Like wat my fren hav said, imagine if u r watching tv at home wif ur most "comfortable" (ugly) position, and there ur mother-in-law emerge from the kitchen ! Imagine what she will tink of u ! In addition, amidst our busy adult life, often, we need to keep our sanity when we reached home. Just imagine if a tired daughter-in-law met with a naggy mother or father-in-law at home !

I really do love my parents alot alot but as when a person grow older, it is good to have our own family too. And for that matter, i really do hope dat I dun stay with any side of the parents so dat me and hubby can really have some quality time together. Call me selfish if need be, but dats wat my opinion rite now.

Life's journey

Hmm... Have been sick for more than a week now. Still sneezing and coughing non-stop albeit I went to a total of 4 docs in total ! Well, gotta keep trusting God's miraculous healing power is at work and I will be back to normal soon.

Jus cos of the sickness, I experienced how it feels to be alone. The feeling was terrible. No one to buy porridge for ya anymore and no one to go to the doc with ya even though ur legs r soft like jelly or ur forehead burning with a heat u nv experienced before. Believe it or not, I almost fell down after seeing a doc cos my whole body was so jelly-like because of the fever. This whole experience allow me to realise dat one gotta be strong and be independent in all circumstances. Cos one day, the one dat u r really close to will not be with you anymore and u gotta stand strong and depend on God. Someone once says Im too emotional. Maybe dats really the truth. Such a small flu virus can allow me to write so much abt my feeling here.

Meanwhile, tis period of singlehood will continue to teach me alot of lessons I have not learned before and hopefully, I will be wiser as the yr go by. Will always trust upon God to teach me and guide me on the journey of life.