Hmm... Been awhile since I blogged. Nothing much happening in my life. Cos always been living a dry and untasteful life. Anyway, met up with my 2 gal frens a few wks ago. Well, shocked is the word to describe the meet-up. My unusually "happening " gf just got ROM. She would have been the least of my frens dat i would have imagined would settle down so early.
We were rattling about her marriage life and talking about staying with in-laws. Hmm, similarly we 3 girls thought it will be good not to stay very near or even with the in-laws cos we might be anticipating world war 3 to happen if we do. Well, for me, if Im really going to get married in the future, I think I might still wanna be alone wif my husband. I dun tink im heartless in the sense im "throwing" away my parents but rather, as the bible states, its good for a man to leave their parents and be joined to his wife. Like wat my fren hav said, imagine if u r watching tv at home wif ur most "comfortable" (ugly) position, and there ur mother-in-law emerge from the kitchen ! Imagine what she will tink of u ! In addition, amidst our busy adult life, often, we need to keep our sanity when we reached home. Just imagine if a tired daughter-in-law met with a naggy mother or father-in-law at home !
I really do love my parents alot alot but as when a person grow older, it is good to have our own family too. And for that matter, i really do hope dat I dun stay with any side of the parents so dat me and hubby can really have some quality time together. Call me selfish if need be, but dats wat my opinion rite now.
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