Pastor Kong talks about being forgiving and giving mercy to those who have greviences against us. Hmm... I personally felt that its really the most important part in our lives to be forgiving and at the same time, like Jesus, forgets others sins. Always try to put urself in dat person shoes who seeks forgiveness from ya. Would you, given the same circumstances, seek forgiveness from dat person u sin against ?
Anyway, I realise not alot of pple r willing to be gracious to pple who have hurt them. Part of the reason might be cos the person might have hurt him/her somewhere deep in their hearts. Taunting and hurtful remarks are also a way of protecting themselves from the same hurts again.
Been disappointed with someone lately. I seriously dun tink I deserve the kind of tactlessness dat the person displayed towards me. And yes, I did hear those sarcastic remarks passing here and there. Well, if I have really caused dat much of hurts inside of you, den I do sincerely do apologised. But kindly saved ur sarcastic remarks to someone else.
1 comment:
I think if one is not happy, it's also not being tactful if one does not directly say it in front of the person.
Has the person been sarcastic? If one is too sensitive over certain things, obviously the one who hears will feel it. The person might not have been refering to the overtly sensitive person. As if the sensitive person has not been sarcastic too.
Also, the person has gotten over the incident (it's not even referred to as hurt) and do not be overtly sensitive to link everything to the passed incident.
And also the person is not protecting anything. Do not overtly assume.
Post a Comment